Writing Talk — A Writing Time Out

Related to Writing, What Do You Mean by “Time Out”?

boy in yellow shirtIf you’re a parent, you’re probably aware of the disciplinary concept of “time out.”  If your child is misbehaving, you may decide he needs a time out in which case he is sent to his room or some other quiet place and his activities for a while are suspended.  And we usually say to him something on the order of:  “You need to think about your behavior and how it should improve.”  But how does this strategy relate to writing? you may ask.  But before explaining further, let’s look at something else, first: the unconscious mind.

Have you ever gone to bed at night with a problem on your mind and then in the morning, as soon as you wake, the answer to your problem suddenly leaps into your consciousness and it’s a perfect solution?  It has happened for me many times and that’s the unconscious mind at work.  So how does it happen?  Now, I am not a scientist nor am I a psychologist so my answer to this is not based necessarily on empirical evidence though I have read about it, somewhat.  But here’s the way I think about it:  The brain has at least two states of consciousness.  Waking consciousness, of course, is when we are awake and our thoughts are like a continuous stream of internal language (one we understand, of course).  Our brains seem to talk to us all the time we are awake.  I’ve heard it referred to as “waking consciousness” or commonly known as “thinking.”

But there is a second type of “thinking” or consciousness going on in our brains and it is sometimes referred to as the “unconscious mind.”  I usually call this type of consciousness “my intuition.”  And here are some things I’ve learned about the unconscious mind, or intuition, over the years:  It never turns off.  But most of the time, it is silent so I’m not aware of its presence nor of its workings.  When it does talk to me, it mostly uses pictures and symbolism (like in dreams) or it speaks in a sudden flash of insight, like an apple falling from the sky.  And intuition loves to solve problems.  So here is where I can relate it to writing.

Writing fiction is nothing if not a huge ball of situational problems that need solving.  The question is:  Is there a way to harness my unconscious mind in order to solve some of the more difficult writing problems?  The answer is Yes!

So, how do we do it?  You can use your unconscious mind to solve writing conundrums by giving your writing a time out.  Here’s what I mean:

Some days the writing is no good.  For me, I know it’s no good when I have to rewrite a single sentence three or four times and, at the end, I’m still not satisfied.  When the writing is bad, I just can’t get into the flow: I stumble, I backtrack, I debate over whether a scene is good or not, the dialogue gets weighty—overwritten.  And when the writing is no good, I’m most afraid that, on a different day when my brain is clear, I will read the passage again and hate it and feel as if it has taken the whole narrative down the wrong path.  Has this ever happened to you?

So I have finally learned that on bad writing days I need to give my writing a time out—a break.  On those occasions, what I usually do instead of writing is cook!  I love cooking because it turns on my intuition.  I may follow a recipe but my intuition seems to jump in and throw out ideas as to how to make the recipe better or suit it to my palette on that particular day.  And cooking, for me, is fun!  I never plan when I cook; I just cook.

Obviously, cooking won’t work for everyone.  But what other activity—physical activity—do you do that does for you what cooking does for me?  Let’s call that a “complementary activity.”  Perhaps for you, the complementary activity is painting or dancing to music or mopping floors.  It doesn’t matter what the activity is so long as it’s physical and it puts you in a Zen state of mind—complete absorption in the task you are doing.

And what happens while I’m playing in the kitchen?  Well, my intuition is multitasking!  Not only is it having fun helping me come up with something good to eat but it is also working on my writing riddles and devising new ideas for me to consider.  At the same time, my waking consciousness is resetting, so that tomorrow or the day after, when I return to my writing project, my brains are clear again and I can read a sentence once and know exactly how to fix it.  And I can write fluently without fighting the language.

Maybe you have a similar trick for resetting your brain; please share it with us by writing a comment below.  Or if you have a question or some other problem with your writing you’d like to discuss, please do mention it in the comments.

Well, until tomorrow, I’ll say so long and wish you good writing.


2 replies on “Writing Talk — A Writing Time Out”

  1. This “Time Out” concept is indeed quite novel. Happens to me too. There are days when I cannot write a single word. Generally on those days I tend to read as much as possible. I love cooking too. That acts as a de-stressor. Would definitely view “Time Outs” from now on as something conducive to writing in the long run.

    1. For me, intuition plays a huge role in everything I do. That wasn’t always the case but it has become more so with time. But letting the unconscious mind guide me, I believe, has provided many important benefits—especially with writing.

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